• When he appears before up with flying mane and flowing tail, divested of bridle, saddle and harness, free of the signs of his subjugation, we sense the open spaces that were once his home and that he ruled with others of his kind

    - Hans- Heinrich Isenbart -
  • The purpose of healing is not to be forever happy; that is impossible. The purpose of healing is to be awake. And to live while you are alive instead of dying while you are alive. Healing is about being broken and whole at the same time.

    - Geneen Roth -
  • The important thing is this:

    To be able, at any moment, to sacrifice what we are for what we could become.

    - Charles Du Bos -

What Are You Waiting For?

5th April 2014

Hello love,

It’s been an interesting few weeks over here at The Unbridled Life. On one hand, things are rocking and rolling on the business front, I’ve been super tapped into my passions and my teaching, client sessions have been off-the-hook deep dive explorations, and I’m in launch mode for Celebrating Abundance Mastery {which begins April 14th!} and putting the finishing touches on the content.

On the other hand, life served my little household a blow a few weeks ago- my partner Matt found a huge mole under one of his sideburns, and after getting it checked out at the dermatologist we found out he had Stage 1 Melanoma. What followed was a series of doctors, tests, surgeries, more tests, conversations about finances, where we live, travel, kids, marriage and if it’s finally time he shut down his business (which requires him to be outside every day)… and a lot of anxiety in the household on both our ends in the ‘not knowing how bad it is and what is going to happen’ stage. Even the cat got sick the night of his surgery she was so upset!

All of which put some major things into perspective for us, and begged the answer to this question that came up over and over again as we explored what was at the heart of what we both most desire in our life: What are we waiting for?

You see, when leading the 40 Day Celebrating Abundance practice, I accessed many of my desires in both my business AND my personal life, and began to see on an even deeper level the meaning behind all of those goals and dreams and desires. I began to tap into how I can begin to make them reality- finally. I also saw SO many of those participating in the program tap into this as well- to finally move past the ‘Some Day Maybe I Will… Attitude” to accessing what we most want, and begin to finally say “This actually is possible, what am I waiting for?”

Life has a funny way of making sure that if we aren’t living in the present moment- spending too much time mulling on the past or worrying about the future- to snap us right back into the here and now. Matt’s diagnosis and the launch of Celebrating Abundance Mastery were JUST that wake up call I needed to get back into living my life in the NOW vs living life in the Some Day Paradigm.

For most of us, this living in the Some Day Paradigm shows up in these ways:

  • I really want to go on that trip, some day I’ll be able to make it happen
  • Sure I want to have kids and a family, some day we’ll talk about it and start making plans
  • I really want to reach out to my long lost friend, some day I will call her
  • I want to be in a relationship, some day I will create the dating profile or ask that woman from the gym out for a cup of coffee
  • I know I need to work with this coach or that healer, some day I will email her
  • I desire going on that retreat, some day I’ll have enough money to do so
  • I want to start this non-profit, some day I will have the resources to make it happen
  • I want to participate in this course, next time it comes around I promise myself I will… then next time… and next time…


Do you catch my drift here? Often, we don’t even realize that we’re doing it, but at the end of the day, it’s all an excuse.

An excuse that you don’t deserve it.

An excuse that you don’t have enough.

An excuse that you can’t do it now.

An excuse that your desires matter in the future, but not today.

An excuse that others can do it, but you can’t.

An excuse to avoid doing the work that is necessary to create real and lasting change in your life.

I’ll admit it, I fall into this trap more often than I’d like to realize: this trap that I don’t have enough to live the life I want to live. But really, all the excuses, all of the some days, are ways to remain in a scarcity mentality. You convince yourself you don’t have enough money/ time/ love/ beauty/ passion/ help to create your life on your terms.

The result: staying stuck in the same patterns, replaying the same stories of why you can’t have what you want. Of why you can’t afford it, why others can do it but you can’t, why you don’t have time to make it happen or that will never happen for you so why bother.

Sound familiar?

Or is all of this old news and you have it all figured out already?

But there are ways to get out of this scarcity mentality. There are concrete, grounded tools to rewrite this pattern, as well as spiritual work we can do to bring more abundance into each of our lives. There are processes and inquiries and grounded ways to go about moving out of the Some Day Paradigm and into the Living Here and Now Paradigm

And this, at it’s core, is what the Celebrating Abundance Mastery Program is all about. In it we will be exploring:

  • how to begin to make this mindset shift into the Living Here and Now Paradigm
  • how to work with abundance in all of the ways it appears in life
  • how to begin to take back control of your money story so that all of these desires and dreams are possible
  • how to begin believing that you have enough, are enough, and deserve all you want and more
  • how to work with both the inner world and outer reality to remove the blocks standing between you and your desires
  • daily practices to support all of this- both real world tools and spiritual practices
  • how to tap into the energy of the Goddess of Love in all her forms to call in the life you desire
  • perspectives from 6 other amazing women who will be presenting on how they have made this mindset shift in their own lives
  • how to use the concepts of energy exchange, especially when it comes to the energy of money, to effect these changes
  • deep explorations of how to invest in your life by investing in YOU to start bringing your desires into reality
  • and much much more

The doors close at Midnight April 9th to enroll in Celebrating Abundance Mastery and we begin April 14th. I’ve received a lot of questions that I want to address below:

  • Anyone can join, even if you did not enroll or complete the Celebrating Abundance: A 40 Day Practice. The Mastery program will take a few of the concepts and drill further, but many new tools and concepts will be introduced, so even those who completed the 40 Days will learn a lot of new materials.
  • I am NOT sure when- or even if- I will be running this course again. I have a lot in the pipeline scheduled over the next several years with trainings and other projects, so this may be the one and only time I offer this Mastery Course.
  • Currently, my private 1:1 practice is almost full with only 2 spots remaining. This means that once the 2 slots fill (and I have several applicants right now), it could be several months before there is an opportunity to work with me again besides the Mastery Program.
  • The Mastery program is by far the cheapest way to work with me over an extended period of time. The cost of my 1:1 work ranges from $1,500-9,000 and above, so the low cost of $750 for 4 months of working with me in this group setting is really a bargain.
  • No where else are these Guest Goddesses all brought together in 1 place, and many of them are no longer accepting new clients. This could be your only way to meet them and ask them questions about your own life during their calls with our group.
  • This isn’t like other group programs where you join but get no access to the teacher. I will be on our calls and take as many questions as you have to dive into what is coming up for you. No time limits and we go where we need to go to make shift and change actually possible. And we harness the power of the group field so all who are in the group reap the benefits.


One of the most powerful things I saw happen during the 40 Day course was watching so many of you invest in yourself through the exercises I led- investments that felt like a major stretch and which many of you have never made. Investments in time-giving yourself the freedom and space for the practices. Investments in spirit- committing to following through what you started. Investments in community- being there for one another and being vulnerable in a group. And investments in money- several of the practices involved stretching your muscles in terms of spending with the intention to invest in yourself. Those of you who were brave enough to do so saw some amazing results and outcomes you had never dreamed of happening- all from the act of investing in yourself.

Imagine what could happen when that investment in yourself is more than buying a bouquet of flowers and instead is a real significant investment with the intention of cultivating more of an abundance mentality. Imagine how powerful this investment could be if you allow yourself to make it- to invest in YOU.

Imagine the possibilities. Imagine the abundance. Imagine the potential for life to change in ways you only have up until now dreamed of.

So my question to you today is: If you are feeling a deep calling to get out of the scarcity mentality, start living the life of your desires, and feel a deep calling to start taking action NOW to make this all a reality, then- What Are You Waiting For?

The cart closes to enroll in Celebrating Abundance Mastery at Midnight pacific time on Wednesday April 9th. If you have any questions, please reply to this email and we will respond right away.

Otherwise, Click HERE to be taken directly to the Cart to enroll today!

Your life is waiting for you to arrive. Dare to be brave. Dare to believe. Dare to tap into the Magic. 




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